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implode
07-22-2005, 11:32 AM
preface: i read "the apology of socrates" for the first time, last evening. this is where i make a joke about going to high school where they stored the junior varsity football equipment.

leeway: everybody may leave the thread right now, if you are so inclined.

continuation: thank you for sticking around, tom and koba! i will try to make this clear and concise, to the best of my abilities, even though i'm composing it now in this very window and tend to have great difficulty with getting to bloody point, already. but this shouldn't be too hard. i think i'll actually find the most trouble in making this topic capable of being responded to.

AHEM. oh. out of coffee? one moment, plz.

<c><b>backstory</c></b>

ALRIGHT THEN. for those of you who have stuck around unexpectedly and are unfamiliar with the story, let me review it briefly, so you might know what the hell i'm talking about: socrates was born an athenian philosopher sometime around 500 B.C. (yes, even in the womb, he composed such deep musings as "how frail this uterine wall might be, if thou ist capable of only 9 solid months of lodging") his mission, as he had chosen to accept it, was not to teach but to learn. <b>the only human knowledge he claimed to be sure of was his own ignorance</b>, and therefore would reject any baseless attempts of the populace to claim him a "wise" man. he would, and i state this well aware of my own ignorance on the subject considering i've read his apology and nothing else, basically go around bothering people on a daily basis, engaging them in conversation and judging them to be either wise or foolish ("pretentious" might be the more appropriate word.) part of the desire to do this no doubt came from a desire to learn from any available subject willing to teach, but in his "apology" (which was actually his defense, which i'll get to) he went further in exposing his motives behind what must have been considered to be getting really fucking irritating among the general population of rome: he was following a divine decree.

he claimed to be a deeply religious man, as all romans were, and therefore held any actual communication from the gods and figureheads in the highest regard. during some sort of gathering around a demigod who's qualifications seemed rather murky in my only carousing of the novelette, a contemporary of his asked that demigod "is there any human on this planet wiser than socrates?" to which the god (somehow) replied "no, there is no other."

socrates, of course, took this as a challenge to decrypt the oracle, as he knew himself that he was not a wise man, and therefore devoted the rest of his life to searching for a man "wiser" than he. he would do this by soliciting them for conversation, regardless of what they were doing at the time, and thus became an enormous pain in the ass. his reasoning went as follows: first he would visit the acclaimed philosphers, whom he figured must have been the most appropriate parties to search for wisdom in. but in doing so, he found that these men were not as wise as contemporary belief would have them claim, and, in fact, were committing the most hideous crime of all when it came to the pursuit of knowledge: they all considered themselves to be wise, although they weren't. they believed that in mastering their craft, they "knew" more than the average human being did. but socrates didn't see it that way. therefore, he would publically call them out on it: basically admonish them, like a disagreeable child, for claiming to know more than they did and claiming to be more than they were. this, naturally, brought him enemies in places where you probably didn't want them back in 500 B.C., and so his story continued.

and then he petitioned the poets, to the same ends, and then he petitioned the artisons, with the same result, all the while gathering a small following of children and teenagers in rome, who found great humor in watching these renown men being humbled at socrates' hands. these children would actually accompany him on his individual quests, which led to the eventual charge of "corrupting the youth of rome" being filed against him, among other things, when he had finally pissed off too many of the wrong people. he was tried and eventually convicted, and put to death for the charges filed against him. his defense was, as it were, that he was merely follwing the will of the gods (one of the charges against him was publically being an athiest, which in that era would probably equate to "publically being a terrorist" in this one.) seeking out a man more wise than he, and when, finding none, he would chastize them for claiming to be wise when they were actually not, he considered that to be nothing more than following through on the will of both the gods and himself: the only thing he felt capable to accurately establish was the truth.

-end backstory-

<c><b>how the backstory relates to this thread</c></b>

socrates made a huge deal out of his ability to see the truth. it was all he felt confident in doing, it would appear, and so he would do so, publically, and without any fear of reprisal from those who might not have wanted to hear it. he considered himself a "gadfly" - you see, the roman empire was the horse, and as all horses were, it had a tendency to grow stagnant in it's constant tedium... and he was, you know, the fly that bit it in the ass every now and then to keep it moving, to articluate what his divine vocabulary would not permit him to do.

he believed that the truth, and therefore right and wrong, were the only things worth defending in this world. he would make allusions to battlefield horrors, where the opportunity of turning tail and running would present itself to him, but instead, he would plod on and avenge his friends death, for being dishonorable in life was a fate worse than any other. even death was a malady that you must confront if it stood in the way of doing the right thing. he justified this very nicely, but i'm not going to summarize it, for anyone who's gotten this far probably already knows the specifics and it would take up too much space that i need to make my final point. basically, he believed there were two things in the world at any given time: right and wrong, and it was his duty to do what was right no matter what the consequences of doing so might be. all very nice, right? a precursor to a christ, even? well.

BUT.

he makes mention in his apology of how he never became a politician, and why he never did so: his logic was that a person with a disposition such as his, one incapable of doing or articulating anything that wasn't right and/or truthful, had no business engaging in matters such as politics, where the right thing was shuffled under the rug with such incredible frequency that he felt his days would be numbered if he did so. this (being killed prematurely, i must assume) he considered to be folly, for "he would be no good to anyone" this way.

AH BUT, MR. SOCRATES. is this not picking and choosing your battles in a manner which you just vehemently denounced? though you claimed that you had no natural disposition towards staying alive if it meant doing the wrong thing, is not looking upon a grand structure of lies and deceit and choosing to turn your back on it and continue doing your own thing the "wrong" thing to do, under your strict definitions of the word? this was also his logic behind never becoming a "public" figure - he would rather petition people privately, one on one, than publically call grand meetings to order via public access preacher man style, helping as many people at a given time as he was capable of doing.

this leads me to believe that contrary to his claims (which i have no problem dismissing - the man was on trial and about to be executed, fer chrissakes. you can contradict yourself all you like when you're that good of a person.) he did have a shred of self-worth in there, somewhere, and knew that keeping himself alive would be more beneficial to everybody than simply petitioning the truth in <i>any circumstance imaginable</i> would be. he knew that his battles were to be chosen wisely, were he interested in continuing to choose them the next day, and the reason he was so damned interested in making enemies at the end was simply because he was trying to figure out the divine oracle that the god had presented him. and eventually, he did. it went something like "man is incapable of knowing anything. the spirit was simply using me as an example of that." from there he was killed and went to elysian and blah blah blah, leaving nothing in writing but his actual "apology" (which i believe was just his testimonial at his trial) and what knowledge of nothing he had managed to pass on to his associates (plato being the most widely known of them.)

<c><b>actual purpose of this thread</c></b>

i know that on this messageboard more than anywhere else i occasionally frequent, there is no shortage of good and just people. people who do the right thing, regardess of inconvenience to self. people who understand that to do a good deed is in itself a reward, and that by telling the truth and being righteous it does not matter if they are improving the conditions of self, for self is a force to be disregarded when you consider the potential benefits that one single good deed can bring upon the world. to look beyond the self for the sake of what is right is a beautiful thing, no doubt, and were it more slick and MTV oriented, maybe it could be the next fad of our day and we'd have VJ's telling TRL artists to stop singing about their goddamned vagina, already.

but. the truth is a touchy thing. and as socrates already knew (though he would have disavowed upon hearing, i have no doubt) there ARE particular instances when telling the truth would not be beneficial to anyone, in comparison to the other feelings it would conjure.

so i ask of you, o people of moosetopia, when is "telling the truth" or "doing the right thing" the wrong thing to do?

implode
07-22-2005, 11:32 AM
this is what i can come up with:

<i>telling the truth is the wrong thing to do when it will invoke unjustified suffering upon others while sparing you the same fate.</i> - for example, "ratting" friends or associates out on a deed that you yourself were involved with. they may deserve punishment, but no more than you do, and you've taken it upon yourself to gain amnesty while condemning others to the fate that you, yourself, deserve. wrong, wrong, wrong. pong.

<i>telling the truth is wrong when it is a matter of personal interpretation.</i> - for example, telling a girl how horrifyingly ugly her boyfriend is. not only is this a "personal" truth, something that isn't right or wrong outside of the confines of your own head, but it will accomplish no distinguishable benefit to anyone involved. since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you have to accept that the girl has already made her OWN decision about whether her boyfriend is ugly or not, and that your input will do nothing but add another "beholder" into the equation, something which is entirely unnecessary and even meddlesome. but this does not stop there - this goes with ANYTHING, and it's often the most frequently spoken truth, which is a sad, sad shame. how many times do you hear "they totally suck, idiot" per day in response to a gleeful exclamation of joy from another? not only is this avoidable, it's downright loathesome. if one person enjoys a form of art/music/literature/candy that you do not, it is only your business to consider whether this is causing immediate harm to that person. if you establish that it isn't, SHUT THE HELL UP, ALREADY, before you start causing immediate harm yourself. even socrates, in all his incredible waypaving glory, was guilty of this: divine mandate or not, it is not your business to go around telling people how wrong they are about everything if they don't petition the subject with you first. you become a meddlesome busybody, actively forcing your way into their lives and telling them the way they should be led. of course, he would probably say that what they were doing WAS harmful to themselves or others, and therefore have a way to wriggle out of the accusation, but... i don't know. i don't think it's your business to act out of your own curiousity. only of the apparent imminent danger to another. the key word is <i>imminent.</i> if you see that, mayhap, in the grand chain of events, smoebody is leading a life that may lead themselves or others into peril one day, you may approach them with cautionary tales of what you believe is to come - however, flatly telling them that they are wrong and should change could lead to just as much peril and danger in the imminent future as you were hoping to avoid in the distant one. they could reevaluate their priorities right there while not being capable of truly understanding them, and you, who have already established that you know nothing more than your own ignorance, would have no way of leading them onto the path you feel they should be on. you'd be destroying evil without replacing it with good. and neutral rolls away down the hill.

finally, and i believe most importantly, <i>telling the truth is wrong when it might potentially get you killed and take you away prematurely from the people who care about you.</i> - as i believe i have shown, i believe that the most horrible thing you are capable of as a human being is causing unjustified suffering to other humans. going out and getting yourself killed is the absolute most effective way to do this. even the pursuit of truth and the right thing wane in comparison to the pursuit of keeping the people you care about as happy as you are capable of.

hm. but in this lies a great quandary.

if a man is being unjustly held at knifepoint by a soldier, and you feel it your duty to defend him with the truth, you are <i>certainly</i> putting your life in peril. if none of your friends are around to know what is happening, do you still do the right thing?

honestly, friends, i don't believe that i would. i believe my folly lies in assuming that my staying alive is all you care about, rather than my happiness. if i were to be assured that everyone would go on happily knowing that i died doing what i felt was right, i think i could do it. but i do not believe it is the case. i'm not trying to overestimate my influence on any one person - just using myself as an example where there can be no others. death is the one thing that you can't predict the reaction to. i don't know how anyone would react were i to die, i don't know if it would cloud their logic and permit them to okay doing things very destructive to themselves in my absence. if i believed my death would cause a suicide or psuedocide (the death of a reason to go on) amongst one of my closest friends, i would not confront that soldier. for even though it is right to defend the defenseless, i believe it is more right to defend those closest to you from unnecessary sadness. and the death of me, were it to lead to the death of someone close to me, would lead to entirely more tangible sadness than the death of an unknown innocent would. it is your duty to protect all, but it is your duty FIRST to protect those closest to you, because.. well... just because. because you know that they care about what you do. and it's only polite to give that same courtesy back to them, above all others. it's not their duty to care about you, they just DO, and it is only right to pay them the same respect.

thoughts? anyone else have any truths that they can justify not telling?

go ahead, call me pretentious and long winded, i've gotten quite used to it. you can't reach true enlightenment before first reaching the pretence for it, after all.

MST3Kakalina
07-22-2005, 05:43 PM
another instance where i think telling the "truth" is wrong would be in a case like (be prepared for an overused example) NAZI GERMANY.


like this:

"hey, Frau Jewlieben, do you have any jews in your home?"

while the TRUTH would be:

"ach, ja! why do you ask?"


you can imagine that would be bad, and kind of not what you were trying to do in the first place.

a lot of what you're proposing sounds like something we talked about in philosophy class, a philosophical school called "the ethics of care." i'm too lazy to find anything on it now, but basically it's that how we go determining right/wrong, just/unjust, etc skims over the depth of human relationships and ignores things like parent-child relationships, where we interact with certain people not based on logic but out of (what seems to be, as far as we can tell) altruism and love and such.


continuation: thank you for sticking around, tom and koba!

hahaha.

implode
07-23-2005, 03:43 AM
ahaha. yeah. i figured i'd guilt at least <i>two</i> people into reading it.

mmm. yeah. that kind of belongs to the first catagory, though. by fingering the cellar full o' jew, you save yourself the same horrible fate. i was going to work on a "littlewhitelie" section for this, since those are a little more murky and operate under their own rules, but screw it, i suck at making threads. be on the lookout for the reissue of this thread (HEY GUYS, SOCRATES) over in offtopic sometime this afternoon.

i think i might enjoy a philosophy class.

MST3Kakalina
07-23-2005, 05:15 AM
my philosophy 110 course was kinda...too easy, although the essays were fun to write.

implode
07-23-2005, 05:47 AM
well, we can't <i>all</i> be dazzlingly intelligent. try as we might.

MST3Kakalina
07-23-2005, 06:02 AM
yeah well, if you're not dazzlingly intelligent, then what the fuck are you doing at my elite liberal arts college?

implode
07-23-2005, 06:21 AM
just hangin' out inside a glowing box, like all the other plainfolk you know.

prisonship
07-23-2005, 03:11 PM
im sure if socrates or anyone else for that matter was to intensely probe my mind im sure i would say something wreaking of mind numbing ballistic stupidity and then later realize it wasnt my intention and have to set it upon the stockpile of regret.

and to answer the question, 99% of the time, less face ridicule and degradation. yay

the Worms
07-26-2005, 05:09 PM
Socrates, apart from being very ellusive to a modern world, was also portrayed by Plato to be very ironic. He often said things to people that were, literally speaking, untrue, in order to convince them to do what he knew would be better for them. In the Crito, he convinces Crito not to sneak him out of prison, because it would bring a bad name upon himself and all those associated with him (thus undoing all Socrates tried to do). He told Crito that the reason not to sneak him out of prison was because it was unlawful in Athens. The ruse was that Socrates pretended that Athenian law was important to him.

Interestingly, Socrates also didn't worry that he wouldn't be able to continue to teach the youth, and for good reason. He had Plato to succeed him. Furthermore, soon after Socrates was killed, the Athenians erected a statue in his honor. Evidently, the work of Socrates lived beyond his death. If Socrates had not given the apology he gave to the crowd, then he would not have been able to continue doing what he did, so it could only be the truth as he saw it.

Was it a mistake for Socrates to prove the so-called wise men wrong? The sophists that Socrates proved unwise were comparable to dishonest lawyers today. They used their rhetorical abilities to make money on those who needed defense in their lidestyles. Socrates wanted to prove the poets wrong because they focussed on what we would today call pornography. Socrates proved people unwise because he believed them a vice to society. Socrates was very political, but he did not accept compromise from those he knew were not interested in what was good.

Lastly, Socrates did not actually believe in the gods the way any other Athenians did. He believed in what he called "Forms", which were basically the expression of the "Good" (the highest truth; what is and allows all else to be). For him, the gods were just Forms with metaphorical personalities. To tell the truth, for Socrates, was to tell what would bring those listening closest to the Good, even if it was a literally false metaphor that he told. The reason he said that he was unwise and that wisdom was knowing that you know nothing was that he did not believe that those around him would be willing to accept such wild ideas as his. The first step in changing false beliefs is to tear them down to make way for the truth.

Of course, I can't say whether Socrates was actually like this, but this is the Socrates Plato gives us. Anyway, so, for Socrates, the truth is always to be told, though the manner of telling it may not be literally accurate.

implode
07-26-2005, 06:21 PM
since i first posted this, i have read crito, and though i didn't actually come to the conclusion that all that he told him was just misdirection, i was intrigued by the way he simply brushed the subject off and focused on the one aspect of the story that seemed like it should have meant the least to him. but. very convincing, i must say. when he was done, there was certainly not a word <i>i</i> could utter in protest, either.

and everything else... jeez. socrates seems awfully <i>deceptive</i> in the light you've painted him in. deceptive and arrogant. if he was truly such a paragon of virtue and righteousness, i... i guess i can't imagine him taking this "father figure" stance with the rest of the world and manipulating them into doing what was needed to accomplish what he felt was right. you have to be awfully confident to be willing to do that. i don't know if i think that's right. manipulating people into being good, that is. i don't doubt that he did what he <i>felt</i> was right, but as for whether it were truly right... well. i guess time has answered that for us, by not giving us a universal definition of "truly right." thanks for the history. and for the killer answer to the original question.

the Worms
07-26-2005, 10:24 PM
It's not that Socrates manipulated people. He knew Athens well, so he knew who was capable of understanding what he thought was true and who was not. Those he knew would not think outside of the Athenian box, he left inside with as many virtues as he could help them attain. In Crito's case, following Athenian law was the best virtue Socrates could give to a man who did not understand why running from the law was not better than dying by it.

By the way, I brought all of this up because I wanted to tell you that Socrates would agree with you in all but one aspect: telling the girlfriend that her ugly boyfriend is attractive is not necessarily an untruth; it can also be a disguised truth. For Socrates, the truth is not 'what really happened' or what have you, it is what really is.

Shiv
08-03-2005, 10:49 AM
Just enjoying reading this discussion. Don't think I have anything outside of a cliche to add, but this all reminds me of some moralistic test that determined that women were less moral than men. On review, one question that women and men defferentiated on was whether it was okay for a man to kill another for the medicine to save his wife... or something of that flavour... it was a hypothetical situation and I don't remember the story. Women thought it was justified, men didn't.

I should probably actually read a book once in a while and refere to these acurately rather than some vague memory of a conversation, but what are the chances of that? Ring any bells?

CSMatt
08-03-2005, 04:15 PM
NO!

beavo
08-04-2005, 03:21 AM
oh implode, you crazy cat.

.....

that's all i have to say.