View Full Version : When to stop feeling sorry for the jealous ex
I need to vent... but I don't want to rant, so I'll try to be brief.... try...
When I broke up with my boyfriend in January I felt that I was a horrible person. The guilt upset me along with the fact that he had been my best friend for so long and I knew it had to be a clean cut. I didn't talk to anyone about it, I just mentioned that it had happened any time someone asked about him (had been going out for just over a year). Soon after he phoned me and begged for me back making me feel even worse.
The point I'm getting at is that I felt guilty untill last Saturday night.
I bore the brunt of the blame because I ended it and felt that I relinquished my right to complain or, in fact, have a problem or be upset in general about him. But three weeks ago I started going out with someone new. It's moving really fast and scaring the shit out of me, but I'm falling in love with him and I'm enjoying it so... good.... However he and my ex know each other and don't like each other... mainly over a rivalry over me, but I don't think they're fond of each other anyway.
So on Saturday, for the first time since we broke up my ex shows up at my regular pub/rock club fibbers and sees me with my boyfriend, gets mad and proceeds to stick his tongue down some girls throat about two feet from me. This actually made me feel better, but now I finally feel like I have permission to acknowledge why I broke up with him in the first place... and for the first time I'm kinda pissed off with him... not for what he did on Saturday, but for how he acted when we were going out and for making me feel guilty for so long.
Anyway, he sent me an angry message today, insulting my boyfriend and ending in "if you come to your senses, im still here."
So... I'm not feeling so sorry for him anymore, it's.... liberating.
Now! Tell meeeeee a story.
(ps. didn't notice the new on topic room before, I don't know what the requirements are....... >_> )
HOMERCHESTRA
07-25-2005, 05:52 PM
Anyway, he sent me an angry message today, insulting my boyfriend and ending in "if you come to your senses, im still here."
Haha, what a dumbass.
MST3Kakalina
07-25-2005, 09:01 PM
i'll move it there, i think it fits betterthere than offtopic.
one time i was dating a guy i met on another messageboard for like...i guess maybe nine months or a year or so (you can all just SHUT THE FUCK UP about how i pick up guys online.) it was nice, he was sweet, etc. and then i found out from one of our mutual friends a little after our one year anniversary that he had wanted to dump me for like three months, but he just didn't want to do it. plus he turned all superchristian asshole, too, and i was like, "what the hell? where did THAT come from?"
so i called him and told him we were over and that was that. and then a few months later i met Mecha.
THE END.
err, my first boyfriend dumped me because he felt that him going to see a prostitute would limit the amount of sexual pleasure I was willing to give him.
MST3Kakalina
07-25-2005, 09:04 PM
ew. gross.
how old was this kid?
13, as was I.
oh well. I think he lives in a group home for breaking a house or something. Not INTO a house, the house itself.
exemplary citizen
07-26-2005, 11:35 AM
I think we all know Ami's horrible stories about her bitter ex.
HEY GUYS. I HEARD HE LOST HIS BEER TRUCK JOB.
MST3Kakalina
07-26-2005, 12:15 PM
winner am he.
MST3Kakalina
07-26-2005, 03:11 PM
can we ride off into the sunset?
Jealous sex? How exactly would that go?
Retard Girl
07-26-2005, 07:03 PM
Someone is jealous at another and thus has sex with someone else out of spite possibly.
cyberen
07-27-2005, 01:12 AM
I guess you never really see all the sides to a person when you discover how they handle irreperable personal loss.
exemplary citizen
07-27-2005, 05:46 AM
Yeah, no shit. That's <i>hardly</i> irreperable. That's pretty piddlin' on the personal loss scale, being broken up with. It's not like you're losing a parent to cancer or something.
MST3Kakalina
07-27-2005, 10:12 AM
<g>BUT OMG U GUYZ HE WUZ TEH ONE FOR ME!!!11! U JUST DONT UNDERSTND!11!!!
i have bad luck with guys.
That's all.
Hey I'm like born in the same year as you.
Let's go get some lollipops?
pshhh. Name brand lollipops are for the superficial superfluous followers of Society. I get mine secondhand from goodwill. They always taste salty from my tears, which are inspired by my brighteyes cd.
It's sad because I bought a brighteyes cd.
And I like it.
why did you choose the name "iodine"?
it's weird, everyone assumes the simplest names will be taken so they make complicated names with numbers and shit, leaving the basic "liz" free, which is name probably quite a few people who have joined have had as their birthname.
Well, I think usernames are kind of lame. Most of them are. There are way too many AIM names that are two words, atleast one of which was looked up in a thesaurus.
I was sick of imwearingurskin and I didn't want to portray any image (which to me usernames do) so I just went simplistic. ZEN!
will you kids call me from con?
This way though, all the newbies think I am one of them, so I can inflitrate and destroy them.
weren't you and finite going to call me once or something
Let's see, I have talked to
Linzoy
Your Stalker
Robot
V
Zootch
Kendra
Aph
and maybe more people.
Klein and implode invited me to con this year I think but I didn't bother asking.
*update*
He insulted me lots and was very angery and he physically threatened my new boyfriend (who would actually seriously kick his ass), and then followed up by apologising and suggesting I avoid him from now on. I am taking this advice to the best of my ability.
Also, my new boyfriend is the best. Going out for a month and we're already totally in love, which is scaring the crap out of the pair of us, but what the hell, it's fun. We are one of those cuples that make you sick in public O_O and we're almost completely trusting in each other which is an odd turn for both of us.
I'm gunna go be stupidly happy with myself now ^_^
Aces. Good job on landing a good boy this time, shiv.
So.
how prettttyyy is he?
*melts even more*
Okay, so he's kinda short, but a few inches above me. He has an amazing body that he tends to cover up, perfect skin, a few shades darker than me and I don't know where he gets the hair, but I don't think it's Irish. It's long and very dark, almost black, almost perfectly straight, but with some life in it, not dead straight. It's rediculously soft and he doesn't even condition it, he just shampoos and brushed it and lets it dry. I love it when it's down, but he insists on having it tied back in public :P Also, he has extremely expressive eyes and a slightly biggish nose (which is kinda native american looking) and the cutest smile that makes me melt. He has a really cute giggle sometimes too... Ima gunna stop now... :D
8B
Takker
08-03-2005, 08:50 AM
Vile, I was showing my brother the post your pic thread and we saw your picture and he said you were cute.
and maybe more people.
Klein and implode invited me to con this year I think but I didn't bother asking.I'll only go to con when(if) it comes to chicago. <small>but it's killing me inside now</small>
shiv he sounds adooorable.
Vile, I was showing my brother the post your pic thread and we saw your picture and he said you were cute.
I'll only go to con when(if) it comes to chicago. <small>but it's killing me inside now</small>
HAHA
:o
hey takker, it was almost going to be in chicago this year.
Takker
08-03-2005, 09:44 AM
it better be next year then. but you have to go Vile. it's not optional
hey dumbhead I was in chicago but did you hang out with me noooo
He is adorable (though he doesn't fully believe me when I tell him). He's also an amazing person.
I don't think I'll ever be in a con. What's the chances of all you folks coming to Ireland >_>
beavo
08-03-2005, 10:26 AM
hey, i'm in ireland already.
Go to Fibbers on Saturday night and we can moose it up a notch. Note: you should like rock music and dancing.
beavo
08-03-2005, 10:41 AM
oh, i've been to fibbers before. heh heh.
you know claire duffy, right? i live around the corner from her.
Bah, I know who you are beavo I'm not entirely in my own little world. And yes I am the duffy's college friend.
beavo
08-04-2005, 04:16 AM
THE duffy, eh?
did i detect slight annoyance in that last remark? although, it is quite hard to tell simply by reading....
Not real annoyance, but mock annoyance... that's okay, yes?
beavo
08-04-2005, 01:52 PM
mock on! :)
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